please share ur views on the kind of life you desire....not all of us might have thought abt it deeply...but just sit for sometime and think what u want to do in life and the kind of life u desire...
the life i desire... I dont want any name-fame-wealth type of life.. The thing i seek in my life is happiness( a very subjective thing).
I just want a 9 to 5 job - so i cud hav time to spend with my wife( just one :D ), 1-2(even 3 wud do) kids.
A decent salary - yeah material wealth is also important for happiness, but, the money-happiness curve saturates at a place, so i dont need a lot . Just to fulfill optimum needs (again subjective).
Non interfering personal and professional life- I dont want to take a file from office to my home.
Home- yeah.. a 2-3 room house wud do..
And wat... some scattered vacations here and there... An old age where I dont regret for anything... and ...??? thats it.. I know is some wat ideal life I desire which I may not achieve, but, I wud try to get the closest possible....
the life i desire... till now, my life has been pretty good,i probably got more than i desired..thanks to God..and my parents..
I dont desire to be the world's greatest man...or anyone's idol, or fame, or to be driven by the modern world's cut throat principles...
I desire a simple life where i can exercise what i like to do.I desire a life with a nominal income so as to fulfill my and my family's needs..a beautiful wife who understands me,2 kids..and some good and caring friends...I hope to provide a good family environment and impart right values and culture to my kids as parents play a very important role in developing child's mentality and personality.. i desire a life where i can spend sufficient time with my family and friends and socialize..
everyone has materialistic demands.. so do i, after all it's endowed in the human nature..i desire to have 3-4 rooms bungalow with a lawn and garden in a serene and peaceful environment..a car like "honda civic" with a good music system..A/C not required , air coolers will do...
Whatever i do,must be inspired by the thought of society's and nature's well being..
Atlast when i grow old and look up into the sky,i must feel satisfied and happy with whatever i have done...no regrets..
Although,its not what u desire u get, circumstances govern everything...but i will try to achieve what i desired..
1>what do i want to be in my life? :O 2>what do i want to get from my life? 3>what am i gng to deliver to this world? 4>What does my parents expect from me ? 5>what does.... This is all what i often think abt my life or rather every1's?(not sure though) My life is governed by some aims,some needs,some expectations,some desires......yep DESIRES....what are they??? A bag of wishlists?? Wishes like having a job whr they pay me lofty salary,a sea facing flat,a luxurious car, a pretty wife and blah blah blah...Are these what i call my DESIRES????? The answer is YES,i wont mind having all these :D but onli to some extent n it doesnt end here....being a human obvi i cant have a finite wishlist :D typical human u know ;) Thats egocentric part but i know the truth that we are called SOCIAL ANIMAL n i really want to do something for society infact i have decided also, i want to help ORPHANS in all the way i can..like maybe teaching them if my working hours permit me n if not then by some other means but i will. Though sumhow i think dis desire of mine is also egocentric cuz i wanna do it for ma satisfaction nt for any1 else's . Thats it....nuthing else i wanna achieve/do as per now....but ya who knows abt future :);) Ooopsss...i forgot to tell abt wife n children in details...obvi every1 wants a pretty and intelligent gal(afterall they say two most imp woman in any guy's life are normally Mom n "dharmpatni")lekin yeh to baat chahne ki thi vch need not come true so looking at present scenario bhaiya jo mil jaye wahi sahi[present situation dekhke i think mil jaye kaafi hai..jyada demand kiya to pata chala ki wo bhi na mile :(] n kids ya i want them to learn DANCE atleast taaki kam se kam galati se agar IIT aa gaye to aaplog samajh hi rahe honge ;)
P.S : @ sancho > saale desire soch ke kya likhoge be..wo to i feel dil aur dimaag me stored hota hai :) type karna shuru karoge to tum bhi shayad yehi feeel karoge..im sure tujhe sochna nahi padega :)
P.P.S : Best post f the blog till now a/c to me Kudos to UM :)
hum to bhaiya chapakal ka paani peena chahte hain. ek badminton court hona chahiye aur wahan mere se better player hone chahiye taaki mera game improve hota rahe aur mera passion bacha rahe. material wealth kewal matlab bhare ka bhi ho to chalega. air conditioner, refrigetator aur car mere hisab se paise ka wastage hai. par mere paas ye sab chhezen hongi ya nahi, ye baaki family members ki wishes par bhi depend karega. aur haan holi me jam ke masti honi chahiye. ye baat mere muhalle waale logon par depend karegi. isliye we log jindadil hone chahiye. aur hamari bari ichha hai ki hum ghudsawari seekhen aur ek musical instrument bhi...
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the life i desire...
I dont want any name-fame-wealth type of life..
The thing i seek in my life is happiness( a very subjective thing).
I just want a 9 to 5 job - so i cud hav time to spend with my wife( just one :D ), 1-2(even 3 wud do) kids.
A decent salary - yeah material wealth is also important for happiness, but, the money-happiness curve saturates at a place, so i dont need a lot . Just to fulfill optimum needs (again subjective).
Non interfering personal and professional life- I dont want to take a file from office to my home.
Home- yeah.. a 2-3 room house wud do..
And wat... some scattered vacations here and there...
An old age where I dont regret for anything...
and ...??? thats it..
I know is some wat ideal life I desire which I may not achieve, but, I wud try to get the closest possible....
the life i desire...
till now, my life has been pretty good,i probably got more than i desired..thanks to God..and my parents..
I dont desire to be the world's greatest man...or anyone's idol, or fame, or to be driven by the modern world's cut throat principles...
I desire a simple life where i can exercise what i like to do.I desire a life with a nominal income so as to fulfill my and my family's needs..a beautiful wife who understands me,2 kids..and some good and caring friends...I hope to provide a good family environment and impart right values and culture to my kids as parents play a very important role in developing child's mentality and personality..
i desire a life where i can spend sufficient time with my family and friends and socialize..
everyone has materialistic demands.. so do i, after all it's endowed in the human nature..i desire to have 3-4 rooms bungalow with a lawn and garden in a serene and peaceful environment..a car like "honda civic" with a good music system..A/C not required , air coolers will do...
Whatever i do,must be inspired by the thought of society's and nature's well being..
Atlast when i grow old and look up into the sky,i must feel satisfied and happy with whatever i have done...no regrets..
Although,its not what u desire u get, circumstances govern everything...but i will try to achieve what i desired..
hmm nice post um raat ko soch ke ache se reply karunga... :P
good question... such questions make us think about ourselves and help us decide. i think, everyone should answer it. i will, after sometime....
1>what do i want to be in my life? :O
2>what do i want to get from my life?
3>what am i gng to deliver to this world?
4>What does my parents expect from me ?
5>what does....
This is all what i often think abt my life or rather every1's?(not sure though)
My life is governed by some aims,some needs,some expectations,some desires......yep DESIRES....what are they???
A bag of wishlists?? Wishes like having a job whr they pay me lofty salary,a sea facing flat,a luxurious car, a pretty wife and blah blah blah...Are these what i call my DESIRES?????
The answer is YES,i wont mind having all these :D but onli to some extent n it doesnt end here....being a human obvi i cant have a finite wishlist :D typical human u know ;)
Thats egocentric part but i know the truth that we are called SOCIAL ANIMAL n i really want to do something for society infact i have decided also, i want to help ORPHANS in all the way i can..like maybe teaching them if my working hours permit me n if not then by some other means but i will.
Though sumhow i think dis desire of mine is also egocentric cuz i wanna do it for ma satisfaction nt for any1 else's .
Thats it....nuthing else i wanna achieve/do as per now....but ya who knows abt future :);)
Ooopsss...i forgot to tell abt wife n children in details...obvi every1 wants a pretty and intelligent gal(afterall they say two most imp woman in any guy's life are normally Mom n "dharmpatni")lekin yeh to baat chahne ki thi vch need not come true so looking at present scenario bhaiya jo mil jaye wahi sahi[present situation dekhke i think mil jaye kaafi hai..jyada demand kiya to pata chala ki wo bhi na mile :(] n kids ya i want them to learn DANCE atleast taaki kam se kam galati se agar IIT aa gaye to aaplog samajh hi rahe honge ;)
P.S : @ sancho > saale desire soch ke kya likhoge be..wo to i feel dil aur dimaag me stored hota hai :) type karna shuru karoge to tum bhi shayad yehi feeel karoge..im sure tujhe sochna nahi padega :)
P.P.S : Best post f the blog till now a/c to me
Kudos to UM :)
hum to bhaiya chapakal ka paani peena chahte hain. ek badminton court hona chahiye aur wahan mere se better player hone chahiye taaki mera game improve hota rahe aur mera passion bacha rahe. material wealth kewal matlab bhare ka bhi ho to chalega. air conditioner, refrigetator aur car mere hisab se paise ka wastage hai. par mere paas ye sab chhezen hongi ya nahi, ye baaki family members ki wishes par bhi depend karega. aur haan holi me jam ke masti honi chahiye. ye baat mere muhalle waale logon par depend karegi. isliye we log jindadil hone chahiye. aur hamari bari ichha hai ki hum ghudsawari seekhen aur ek musical instrument bhi...
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